Judy: Well, Anne was sick most of the week....cold. So I had do things alone....not, that was a problem, but I worried about her not having fun. I know that she wanted to be alone....like an animal that is sick.
So, when Anne came home after work, I really wanted to go to Jan Meda (a large field by the University) for the Epiphany celebration. But, I knew Anne was sick and really didn't want to go anywhere. She didn't say that, but she told that I was wrong and the celebration was tomorrow. I know that I have problems with processing, but I was sure that I was right. So, I visited my friend, the concierge, to see what was happening. AND, I was right! Anne was wrong....but, she was sick so......
I asked her if she would like to go.....even though I knew by her body language (curled in the bed under the covers) that the answer was "No". So, I forged the way to Jan Meda.
Anne: geez...I thought she would never leave!!
At the first corner, when I didn't know whether to go straight, left or right....I asked two young ladies if they could direct me to Jan Meda. One of the ladies said "We are going to Jan Meda....would you like to accompany us." Good thing, because I didn't have clue there I was going....even though I had a map....did I say that I had a problem with processing??Anyway, my two friends Afamily and ?? took me under their wings....protected me...one on my left and one on my right....two guardian angels! I know that I have angels to protect....and they're in Ethiopia too.
Well, I was too late to see the celebration with the Priests, choirs and the services. But, I did see the boys chasing the girls....this was the scene that my friends wanted to see. The boys circled around and danced so the girls would take notice...then, the boys would pull one of the girls around to dance. AND, guess what, I was pulled to the circle to dance! When I finished (or was too tired to dance....me old) , we look around at other groups of boys, AND, guess what, I was pulled in other circles....again, and again, and again! My friends were shocked that I can dance! Really, I was as old as their Mother!
Did, I say that I was the ONLY "france" (foreigner) in Jan Meda at that time? The girls were very worried that I might get lost....so, Afamily put her cell phone number in my phone and put mine in her's, so if we were parted we could find each other again. Her friends were 19 and 20, but I felt like a child again...holding my parents hands. And, I was grateful for my friendship.
After we left Jan Meda, my friends made sure that they accompanied to the Hilton so they would know I was safe. When we arrived at the hotel, I called Anne to see if she felt good enough to meet my friends. I'm trying to see if my friends could have dinner with Anne and me.....but first, Afamily's Father must approve of us. So, we wait!
Tuesday was Epiphany....Timket festival traces its origin to the baptism of Jesus in the Jordan River by John the Baptist. Yesterday, (the eve of Timket) the Tabot (a replica of the Arc of the Covenant) from each Ethiopian Orthodox church around Addis to taken to Jan Meda and the Priests, elders, choirs and the members of each church congregate to Jan Meda for the ceremonies and to be baptized again. Yesterday, was called "Ketera". Ketera is originated from the Amharic word (national language in Ethiopian) "meketer" ....to contain water.
The origin "Arc of Covenants" (Ten Commandments) is believed to be in Ethiopia in the Axum Tsion Church. All of the Ethiopian Orthodox Churches have a relica of the origin...the Tabots.
All Timket (Tuesday), the Priests carry the Tabots to their respective churches with the masses following on, dancing and singing. Then, at the church there is a service and social event.
So, as the churches were in festivities and Anne was sick, I went on a walk to find a music shop that I heard about! That's how I met my new friends.....Brook and Adane. J
Anne:...seriously, how does she do it!
I started walked to find the "Old MilK Club" (restaurant), but couldn't find it because it is no longer open. Then, I started walking to the music shop....least where I thought it was. Couldn't find it....so, asked two men if they knew where the music shop there. In seconds, I was walking and talking holding Brook's and Adane's hands! They were celebrating the holiday and weren't busy so they accompanied me to the shop.....which was closed because of the holiday! Brook's teaches English and Amharic and Adane is a driver for the U.N. They asked me if I would to go a coffee or a glass of wine. So...we did.... first coffee at first front of a car repair shop, sitting on milk/pop crates ordered by a woman who rinsed cups and poured coffee from a thermos! The coffee was good. After our coffee, thanked my new friends, ready to say goodbye. But, Adane said "When, we haven't gone for wine yet".....so, we did....at a bar/restaurant in their community.
Anne called to see where I was....I told with my new friends having a beer (I decided I didn't want wine....the local wine isn't not good). I did ask her if she would like to join us at the bar...."Not really".
Anne: Hmmm.....you should have heard the invitation. So I just rolled my eyes and left her to her boy toys!
I learned about their lives and them my life....it was all good. I called Anne to ask if she wanted to go dancing with Brook and Adane.....but, we decided to go when she felt better. The guys walked to the Hilton which was a lesson with children asking for money.....I was struggling about this. Everytime, I walk or shop, somebody asks for money....and I don't know how to handle this. I asked Brook and Adane. They stopped to buy gum from children and one of the kids, who wasn't selling gum, asked me for money...I asked them if I should give him money. Their opinion was don't give him the money.....if the kids were selling things....support by buying their products. That made sense to me.....the term "learned hopelessness" shouldn't be encouraged ....support work rather handouts. The boys selling gum were doing something to support our lives....next time I will support our efforts.
Okay, I think Anne might have a contribution to this blog....and I should support her in her efforts....
Anne
Well I hate to interfere with Jude's creative spell.....but okay.
The rest of the week was a blur really. Wednesday my assistant booked me a massage at the Hilton, which I found out about when I came home from work. Quite a nice surprise! My masseuse was trained by a 250lb German manlady I'm sure. When she drove her fingers through my delicate but beautiful feet I knew I was in trouble. Hard to relax when you are holding your breathe and constantly travelling to your "happy place" (swimming in a vat of hot fudge sauce) J
Thursday at noon I packed to leave for an out of town retreat...only to unpack later that night because it was postponed! So since I was free and in the city....I went off to meet Judy's new friends Brook and Adana for drinks. They do exist....and they are surprisingly nice. Hmm...she usually attracts losers? They again escorted us back to the Hilton and we left with the promise of a traditional restaurant on Saturday night. What am I doing!!
Friday was my busiest day in 3 weeks..at work. Management was in town...deadlines are looming..and everybody was vying for my attention. Oye...I can't imagine how crazy next week will be. Hard to believe that it's my last week. And we haven't even finished working our way through the Hilton menu!!
But it was a good Friday cuz we were back into our routine... Work then gym then dinner off the compound. Back to Island Breeze for pizza...seriously, best pizza! Then had a fight with a taxi driver to end a lovely day. It was a well deserved fight...complete with leaving the cab without paying then being chased by the cabbie...then throwing money at the cabbie. Ahhh...very entertaining indeed. I wasn't worried cuz I knew I could take him. But he did want 200 Birr for a 3o Birr trip!! We just refused...that's all....and stood our ground!
We did go to dinner Saturday night (Yoda Absynnia) with Adana, Brook, and Eramias. We ate traditional food, watched singing and dancing...and then duly escorted to our hotel by our "brothers". It was a fun night. Adani is very protective of Judy...very cute. Oh, he has a fiancé by the way, I don't think I'm leaving her here??
And last but not least...we took off to the country on Sunday. Ohhh so nice to get out of the city and see some churches, baboons, and farms. The real Africa!! :0
Oh my god...it's happy hour in the bar (Hilton office)....And Africa Cup football on TV...so enough of you guys!
Just when I thought it was safe to sign off....she's done it again. This time it's a 5mos baby girl named Seeam. A couple from the US just adopted her and Judy has become the grandmother. She's been holding her for the past half hour. I wish I had the camera....that tiny little black hand in that big white mitt!! Tooooooo cute for words J
Anywayyy...over and out for now
Circle and square